It's kind of scary starting my kids in on this tradition that I loved growing up. Most of my memories involve my cousin Heather and myself and usually... boys. She is a couple years older than I am and suffice it say, I believe that her mission was to introduce me to the ways of the world. We would spend FOREVER primping and preening doing hair and make-up just so and then would head off to the campground clubhouse where the testosterone abounded. Mind you, I was not very old. Maybe 14 or 15, but after she worked her magic(she works that magic quite successfully as a profession now-although I suspect there's a lot more of the old looking young going on), we could both easily be passed off as old enough for the late night no kids swim time and certainly old enough to gain a bit of attention from the high school and college age boys lingering about. Now before all of you start letting your minds wander, we never did anything BAD. Heavens no. A lot of lying, yes, but nothing horribly dreadfully immoral. We did have a great deal of fun.In hindsight, I learned a lot about how I will parent my kids. I'm not saying that Heather and I had bad parents, we actually were both raised in amazing homes by wonderful God-fearing men and women. The problem... they trusted us. Maybe too much. Who knows though, maybe they were right in giving us so much space. Like I said, we were never truly bad. I suppose if you train up a child in the way he or she should go there has to be a point at which you set them free to make their own choices. Those boys though... they shouldn't have been trusted. I fear for the first boy that gives our daughter that look. You know the one, all googly eyed. I dare say that the little princess's daddy may have his hide. :)
Well, reminiscing has been fun, but the laundry awaits. Have a wonderful weekend, y'all!
2 comments:
Have fun!!!
Very insightful post :) Have a great time with your family.
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